My boyfriend is on dating sites
If you had caught him out behaving as if he's single offline — taking another woman out to dinner, ferociously chatting people up in bars or exchanging suggestive text messages — it would be clear that your relationship isn't going to go very far. What he is telling you by continuing to look online is that he is not serious about you and doesn't care if you find this out.So you can confront him if you want, but you should think realistically about how the conversation is going to go. "I kind of like you but I still want to know what's out there"? And why would you want to be with someone who feels like that?And those who continue to look online for other women, even though they've led you to believe you're in a relationship with them, are slippery ratbags in real life, too.By crouching late at night over his laptop, exchanging messages with women he's never met, your new boyfriend is behaving as if he's single.
From where he sat, he probably enjoyed dating you and hadn’t moved to a more serious stage yet. You were happy enough with him to want your relationship to be exclusive. Chances are he wanted to see where the relationship was going to go and got caught up in the game. If you’re sleeping together, he also might not want to give that up. Probably because you weren’t sure he wanted to be exclusive with you. You wanted to catch him and behind HIS back, logged on as a fake person to see if he’d take the bait. No guy wants to feel like his girlfriend is checking up on him, even if it’s innocent.
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